Peering out the windshield, I was sure I was driving through a storm.

It wasn’t until I made it to the sunlight and looked back did it become clear that I had merely been cruising through a car wash – in neutral – the entire time.


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Happiness and Freedom

I recently read that doing what you like is freedom but that liking what you do is happiness.

Sometimes, on this big blue bouncing ball, we find what makes us happy. Sometimes we find what sets us free.

And if we are lucky, we find that they are one in the same.

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Choose Right

Today I was stuck at an intersection, waiting – for what felt like an eternity – for the perfect opportunity to make a left turn.

I seriously could have completed the entire Harry Potter series sitting at that intersection.

Just kidding.

I don’t read fiction.

At least not voluntarily.

But I digress.

With my patience wearing thin, I decided to just make a right hand turn instead.

And, I kept turning right until I finally reached my destination.

Much can be gleaned while driving in circles.

No matter how many times you go around, you still end up in the same place – proving, yet again, that you can never go wrong when you choose right.

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Learning to Tie

It is said that a lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.

Just wait and see what happens once the truth learns how to tie its laces.

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The Best Spot in the Universe

Everyone has a favorite spot in the universe.

For some it is standing on top of a mountain peak breathing in freedom.

Many find their peace simply by watching waves crash onto a shore.

There are those who are made whole just by drawing energy from a crowded Manhattan street.

Others can only feel secure in the comforts of home.

My favorite spot in the entire universe is not in the Rockies.

Nor is it on a white sandy beach.

It’s not in a sleepless city.

It’s not even in my own backyard.

It is nestled in my husband’s arms on a lazy weekend morning.

Because, it is only there where I can feel free, calm, inspired and protected all at once.

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On this day I am reminded of the powers of gratitude.

“It can transform common days into Thanksgivings; turn routine jobs into joy; and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.”

It can even ensure that lessons become godsends.


Happy Thanksgiving!

With much gratitude, The Stoic

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Beneath the Survivor Tree

17 years ago, I spent my birthday at ground zero, staring at a hole in the earth filled with rubble, just crying.

After enduring a depressing year, I needed a reminder of how blessed I was and how precious life truly is.

Today, I returned to that spot with my husband and kids – not needing any cues.

In them, I am reminded everyday how fortunate I am and how priceless time is.

Today, I just stood with my family beneath the survivor tree relishing in its resilience, survival and rebirth.

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The State of Enlightenment

“On the road from the City of Skepticism, I had to pass though the Valley of Ambiguity” – Adam Smith

I’m going to assume that he ultimately ended up in the State of Enlightenment.

Everyone usually ends up there.


Even those believing they are traveling from the City of Certainty and through the Valley of Clarity.

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How Not to Die

I can’t help but notice this book every time I walk out of my local juicery, sipping my morning beet root juice.


People are always searching for the fountain of youth or the secret to eluding death.

But, the answer is not found in a book.

There is only one sure fire way not to die.

And that is not to live.

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As most working moms do, I’ve mastered the art of multitasking.

Unfortunately, I have yet to perfect the act of multi-existing.

While I can easily do many things at the same time, as of right now, I cannot be in more than one place at one time.

Nor can I listen to more than one radio station at the same time.

But I’m diligently working on accomplishing both – at the same time – while I type this.

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A New Level of Evil

It has long been believed that evil lurks in the darkness, fearing exposure from the light.

This is not true of all evil.

Narcissistic evil is a whole other level of evil.

It is an evil so brazen that it unapologetically hides in plain site, taunting the light.

But even when it is fooling the brightness, it is never escaping the clock.

For, time eventually reveals all evil – even the kind sheltered by light.

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